Saturday, October 27, 2007

Dating Tips for Single Moms

Although the Internet has lots of dating advice, dating tips for single moms sometimes don’t make sense. It’s a completely different world of dating when you’re a parent with a child or children at home. It complicates things ten-fold, and emotions like guilt or confusion only add to the mix. After talking to lots of single mothers of children of all ages, I’ve put together these dating tips for single moms to help make the world of dating less confusing and more successful.

Ease Your Kids Into It

When you’re ready to begin dating, ease into it with your kids. Don’t suddenly make a bomb-shell announcement like, "Mommy’s going to go on a date. This is really important." This will guarantee resentment. Simply mention that you are going out with a friend when you have a first date. After all, this is all it is at this point.

Enjoy Your Date

Once you’ve decided to go on a date with a man, commit yourself to focusing on it and enjoying it fully. That means not calling the baby sitter every half hour to check in. If you aren’t ready to trust someone to watch the kids while you enjoy an evening out focused on enjoying yourself and getting to know someone, you shouldn’t be dating yet. You’ll also send huge signals to the man you’re with that you aren’t ready to start a relationship of any type.

Don’t Look at Your Date as a Potential Parent – Yet

Here’s a dating tip for single moms that also applies to single guys with kids: your first date should be about whether you like the person you’re out with. Don’t look at him like he’s a potential new parent for your kids – it’s way too early for that. It won’t matter if you end up deciding he isn’t right for you, and you don’t want to put too much pressure on him all at once. You just might scare the right man away before he has the chance to prove himself this way.

Avoid Competition

Don’t sacrifice traditional family activities for the sake of a date. If Sundays are always set aside for pancakes and bacon with your kids, don’t start making Sunday plans with a man you’re dating after just a few weeks – it sets an unhealthy precedent for a sense of competition between your children and your date.

Introducing Him to Your Kids

If you do establish a significant relationship, begin introducing him to your children little by little. Short, fun activities so that everyone can relax and enjoy getting to know one another are a good start. Neutral territory (a family restaurant or perhaps the zoo) is best at first. You can add including your new suitor in family activities after your children have grown comfortable with him.

Guys to Avoid

As your children get to know him, make sure that the man you’re dating accepts your children just as they are. He shouldn’t try to discipline or change them – that’s not his job. If he becomes critical of your children or of your parenting style, it’s time to end it.

Make the Rules Clear from the Start

Your children will always come first. It’s one of the most important dating tips for single moms I know of. If the man you’re dating doesn’t understand this now, he won’t later. Some men will commend you for this and agree whole-heartedly – these are the mature, loving ones. Other men will feel like this puts them in "second place," and they will probably never love your children like they should be loved because he will see them as competition for your time and affection.

Don’t Lean on the Man You’re Dating Too Soon

Any serious relationship is a big step, and you never want to confide everything or rely on the person you’re dating too early on. This dating tip for single moms applies to any single (don’t cry about ex’s, your parents, etc. on the second date), but it is particularly true for singles moms who are dating. He may be perfectly wonderful, but even the strongest, most compassionate man will be frightened if you spend your third date discussing details of your child’s adjustment problems in third grade or your concerns about whether your teenage daughter is drinking. These are serious matters, and should only be discussed once a serious relationship is established.

Let Your Dates be About You and Him

He may come to love your children completely, but the person he asked out was you. Remember to talk about things beyond parenting.

I hope you also remember to have a good time on your dates – remember, you’re not only a mom, you’re also a vibrant single woman! If you keep this in mind as well as the above dating tips for single moms, you’ll have a wonderful time now and in the future – and you may find someone who is good for you and your children!

About the Author:

Kevin Urban is the editor at Dating-Site-Advisor.com, the web's guide to the best online dating sites and matchmaking services. His reviews help you compare sites such as the best Christian Singles dating web site or foreign dating service.

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Two crucial factors in attracting women that most dating methods don't tell you about!

Most dating methods seem to suggest that the first thing you must do upon seeing a woman you would like to meet is simply to go up to her and "start a chat" or "break the ice" with her.. We use the term to deliver an "opener" . However this is a very weak notion as women decide whether or not they even want you to "open" them leave alone attract them and seduce them well before you open them. They make this determination on your non verbal mannerisms and decipher whether or not they are indicative of an alpha male or a beta male. If you exhibit beta mannerisms then not even the coolest line will work as she doesn't want to be "opened by and attracted to" a beta male. Conversely, if you exhibit alpha mannerisms then any line will work as a woman will know that she is being opened by a "high survival value exhibiting" alpha male and so any opener will work and so will the probability that she will be open to being attracted to you and even seduced by you.

So what are the non verbal mannerisms of an alpha male?

1)Have a great smile when you speak -A smile conveys confidence and coolness.
2) Dominant and powerful body language-This means have a cool, relaxed stance, take up space when you walk, speak with a loud dominant voice, make eye contact with everyone, have a sly, playful smile when you interact with others as this shows that you are non-reactive to people

3) Social Proof from other women-Engage women in conversation and and let your target set see that you are attractive to other women

4) Dominate other men-Be the most unreactive, coolest, best dressed, most confident male in any given social venue.

5) Have a unique style-Remember women do judge you on your style as part of your pre-opener non verbal social value so make sure it stands out and in fact screams out at them.

The other thing that most dating methods don't tell you is that just because you attract a woman, that does not mean she is "sexually attracted to you". See most men are good at generating some superficial IOI's from a woman but to truly turn that spark or initial interest or superficial attraction into "raw, sexual attraction" you need to hook a woman to chasing you. Think about it, how else would a woman justify that her feelings towards you are those of sexual attraction unless she knew that she would chase you or would feel a loss if you withdrew your presence from her. One of the best ways to get a woman to pursue you is to falsely disqualify yourself from her and subtly distract or divert your attention away from her .

Some examples of false disqualification are:

"You better go, I bet your friends are waiting for you"
"I'm too extroverted for you"

See in essence, I am pushing her away and that is so against the grain of what she is used to. This will throw her off balance and cause her to question her attractiveness and sexiness. She will then chase me to redeem her status as God's specimen of heavenly perfection. Consequently this chasing dynamic that I have set up will make her feel sexual tension and raw sexual attraction for me.

Some examples of diverting my attention of her would be:

1) Look at other women subtly as she is talking to me
2) Act like I am getting bored.

This will also create a chase dynamic with a woman as it will put a sense of uncertainty
inside the woman's mind that she is God's gift to the earth as you are displaying an indifferent care-free attitude towards her. This will make her logically infer that you are bored of her or don't find her attractive. Once again as a result, she wil start to chase you.

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Dating Etiquette – Common Sense!

Dating is an important activity in a man’s or women’s life as it is an activity to meet a person of opposite sex be it for love, romance, long term relationship or sex. Apart from procreation the union of men and women is a natural process wherein personal life, social life and community life becomes meaningful.

Dating among adults cannot be always for love or romance it can be there for sex too. As sex is natural to humans who are in totality sexual beings. Whether you are in for sex dating or dating for romance there some simply etiquette involved which although is common sense but then men forget and women too can be bad examples.

First, if you are seeking some one through online dating sites - which have become the norm for finding soul mates or sex partner today – Be polite when messaging or interacting on chat or web cams. You may not like the person or may not be willing to date him for one reason or other. Be polite in your refusal and do come up with a sensible excuse for not continuing the interaction further.

If you decide to meet someone then reach on time. On the other hand, if you are not able to keep the appointment then inform in time and ask for a new date.

On your first meeting, your date may be jittery or nervous. Do not be flashy or arrogant. It really helps if you start with a light conversation and get to know each other well.

Always ask where he or she would like to spend the evening with you, this helps, as your date may be more comfortable in a place of his or her choice.
Have a friendly approach, and please do not look in the breasts, as it is rude to make sexual advance without your partners consent. An eye contact or a light kiss is always better way to start. Any way it is not advisable to go for sex until unless you know your partner well.

Again do not brag and please do not smoke or drink copiously. Do not smoke in restaurants or public places it will only show how crass you are. Rather smoke and drink only with the consent of your partner or if both like to do so.
Never brag about your past escapades your date has not come to listen to all that. Rather be witty and informative in you conversation to make the evening interesting for your partner.

Do not show off your money or anything flashy, as it does not help. Your date has come around to know you as a person and not what you have. As a man, you will only end up as making her feel like a cheap whore.

Create conversation on subject you both are knowledgeable about, a one sided conversation means that you may not see her or him again. The whole idea is make the date enjoyable and fun. Moreover, giving your partner the joy of having somebody new and interesting entering one’s life. That is what one is dating for in the first place. Right!

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Interracial Relationship - Dating Outside One's Culture Without Betraying One's Roots

The public's outlook on socially and culturally sensitive issues is changing with every passing day. From 1967's legalization of interracial marriages to current trends of legalizing gay marriages, it is apparent that, given time, society learns to accept change. Interracial dating and romance is no longer uncommon and is becoming well established throughout North American society. The individuals within these relationships are generally comfortable with the knowledge that they can both maintain their own culture as well as introduce themselves to another. These couples do not feel that they are betraying their roots by learning new customs. In fact, in most cases it is the parents that pressure their children into not abandoning their culture and thus to avoid dating those of different ethnicities. When it deals with other people, it appears that most individuals are willing to accept multicultural dating, but those same individuals are against it when it jeopardizes their own customs and beliefs.

Many parents are worried that mixed raced dating will somehow dilute their own culture and will threaten the preservation of their cultural beliefs. They feel that in order to control the weakening of their cultural bonds, they must restrict the actions of their children i.e. prevent them from dating outside of their culture. Parents worry that if their child falls in love with someone of a different culture, they might sacrifice their own traditions in order to make the relationship work. Technically, it is up to their children to make these decisions. Realistically, the parents have the power to decide. Many children who go against their parent's will are punished with disapproval and even worse, alienation.

For couples in multicultural relationships, compromise is sometimes the best way to bridge the gap between the varying traditions. Choosing the most important traditions from each culture, while making sure to include the parents' opinions, will allow the partners and their parents to feel equally significant. The parents may never be completely happy with the choices their child has made, but at least they won't feel as thought that family roots have been betrayed.

People of different cultural backgrounds are not impervious to learning new customs and traditions. New partners may readily accept the challenge of engaging in the practices of different cultural groups. A person's roots are not left behind simply because they are exposed to new customs. Cultural and familial roots make us who we are, and that can never be taken away.

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Christian Dating Advice for the Real World

Christian dating advice runs the gamut from "don’t date at all," to "you can date anyone and change them if you like them." Neither of these is practical in today’s world. If you don’t ever date, you’re going to have a hard time establishing a more significant relationship, and trying to change or convert someone is a recipe for disaster. Today’s Christian dating, advice from experts aside, can be successful and enjoyable if you keep a few things in mind.

Let People Know You are Open to Dating

While you may have heard horror stories about blind dates, a surprising number of them are successful. After all, who better to help you find a potential date than Christian friends?

Don’t Preach

When you do go on a date, be up front about your beliefs without preaching. This isn’t the time to convert an unbeliever, but it is the time to make it clear that the Lord is central to your life. If he or she respects this and shares this passion for God, you’re off to a great start.

Don’t Date an Unbeliever

Dating should, of course, always be enjoyable, but don’t compromise just to have somebody to do something with on a Saturday night. If you’re not sure where someone stands on their faith, you can certainly go out a few times and explore the issues. If it’s clear the person isn’t an active Christian, move on. Thank him or her for a wonderful time and reassure them that you want to remain friends, but stand firm that any serious relationship must be God-centered first and foremost.

Try Christian Dating Sites

If you are considering online dating, check out several sites that advertise that they are for Christians. Many of these even allow you to narrow your search by denomination so that you can find someone whose doctrinal beliefs and practices will be in tune with yours. These sites also often have single Christian dating advice of their own that can be helpful.

Avoid Temptation

As a Christian, you know that giving into lust or sexual intimacy is wrong. Dating can make resisting temptation difficult, especially when you’re physically attracted to someone. Don’t give yourself the opportunity to confuse affection or love with lust. Date in public places such as restaurants, museums, movies, etc. If you’ve dated a few times, invite him or her to join you in relaxing with family or friends – group activities are a great way to enjoy each other’s company while keeping temptation to a minimum. Remember this Christian dating advice: a relationship should be about love and respect, not lust.

Be Honest with Yourself

Is the person you’re dating someone you would be proud to take to your church and introduce to your family? If something about him or her makes you feel like you would need to defend them against criticism by those who love you the most, take heed! Those closest to you can see sometimes see more clearly than you do because attraction doesn’t cloud their vision.

About Committing Yourself

Proverbs 4:23 says, "Guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life." There is no better rule for dating than this Old Testament admonishment. And consider this Christian dating advice: commitment doesn’t happen after two or three dates. Keep your innermost secrets until you have become truly close emotionally and spiritually. Latching onto someone too soon means you could get hurt – especially if you begin to abandon your commitment to Christ in order to make that other person happy.

Pray for Guidance

Opening your heart to God and asking His counsel and guidance will point you in the right direction. Sometimes just refocusing through prayer will lead you to a better understanding of where your dating relationship is going and if it is right for you.

If you keep the above Christian dating advice in mind, you’ll not only have the opportunity to meet and date other Christians, you are more likely to end up in a strong, Godly marriage.

About the Author:

Kevin Urban is the editor at Dating-Site-Advisor.com, the single men's guide to the best online dating sites. He offers free dating tips for men and reviews the best matchmaking dating services on the web.

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Britney Spears Not Dating Bodyguard

By: Shannon Gossage

Recently it was reported that Spears and Shippen were intimately involved, not so says a source close. The source said, "He’s her bodyguard and manny. They’re not dating." The two have been spotted all over the place – going to see Wicked, to church, and at a hotel in Beverly Hills reportedly where Spears has been staying. There have even been reports that the two were spotted getting cozy and were seen making out at the Chateau Marmont in Los Angeles.

A source said that Shippen is "tickled" by all the attention but that he is just there to protect Spears and her kids. Last year when Spears almost fell in New York City while holding Sean Preston, Shippen was the mustachioed knight in shining armor who saved her and SP from a big tumble. He was reportedly working for a private security firm at the time, but is now on Spears’ payroll. A source close to Spears has said, "She doesn’t have a manny. When the kids are with her she takes care of them and she is a very hands-on mom."

Spears is currently staying in a hotel despite her home being so close because she is in the process of trying to sell the Beverly Hills mansion. Spears purchased the six-bedroom, six-and-a-half bathroom, fully furnished home for $7.2 million in December. She originally put the mansion on the market in February, but decided against selling. Seems she has changed her mind yet again and is seeking a $7.5 million sale. She is also selling her Malibu mansion, which has been on the market for nine months. She recently dropped the price from $13.5 million to $12 million.

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Practical Dating Advice for Gays and Lesbians

Dating advice for gays and lesbians isn’t that much different from dating advice for anyone else. After all, everyone is looking for a date or partner they are compatible with who will show mutual respect and affection. It can be more difficult, however, to know how to proceed since there are nuances and potential problems that are unique to dating when you are homosexual. I’ve put together some practical dating advice for gays and lesbians that apply to a variety of situations.

Come Out of the Closet

If the person you’re attracted to is already a friend, you can deal with it honestly and be straight-forward. Simply admit that you’re attracted to him or her, and have been wondering if they feel the same way. If they are, make plans to get together on an official date. If they say they don’t really think of you that way, be gracious and willing to continue being friends.

Great Places to Meet

Check out gay and lesbian bookstores and clothing stores in your area. You may meet someone terrific, and you can ask knowledgeable staff where some of the hot spots are in the area. Also be sure to check out the bulletin boards at bookstores – these will often list special events that can be a great place to meet people.

Look for the Pink Pages

This is a locally published list or newsletter in most larger cities that list events, clubs, bars, etc. that cater to gays and lesbians. Try visiting a few new spots each week – you’ll meet plenty of new friends even if you don’t find romance.

Check Out Some Courses at Your Local College

Most schools now offer several courses listed under something like "Gay and Lesbian Studies." Signing up for a few classes will not only broaden your intellectual horizons, it will give you a great way to start conversations with fellow class members.

Consider Activism

Groups promoting gay and lesbian rights are filled with intelligent, interesting people who tend to be social and multi-faceted. By doing more for the gay and lesbian community, you’ll naturally meet more members of it.

Always Look Your Best

This sounds trite, but it’s usually when you’re not looking that you stumble onto meeting someone terrific! The key to this is keeping your mind open to unexpected opportunities. All other dating advice for gays and lesbians is beside the point if you aren’t open to the possibilities when an unexpected opportunity arrives.

Consider Dating Outside Your "Type"

If you focus only on trying to find your dream date (tall, dark hair, with a specific look, for instance), you might miss the opportunity to get to know someone incredible. Don’t automatically think that someone is too butch, too femme or too this or that. Go out a few times and you may surprise yourself. If not, remain friends and you’ll both be able to introduce each other to friends.

Consider Internet Dating

If you are comfortable with the idea, consider Internet dating. There are dozens of sites giving dating advice and opportunities to meet gay and lesbians. These range from racy ones for quick, physical relationships to matchmaking services geared specifically to professionals looking for a life-long commitment. If you do decide to try one of these services, be sure you’re aware of some of the more common acronyms used:


* ALT – alternative lifestyle

* BDSM – bondage, dominance and sadomasochism

* Bear – a bearded man

* BiF – bisexual female

* BiM – bisexual male

* CD – cross-dresser

* DDF – drug and disease free

* FTM – female to male transsexual

* MTF – male to female transsexual

* POS – HIV+

* FEMS – a gay male who leans to the feminine side



As you can tell, dating advice for gays and lesbians is about being open to all possibilities and treating others with respect. It’s good advice for anyone looking for a relationship, and will give you the opportunity to make some friends along the way.

About the Author:

Kevin Urban is the publisher of Dating-Site-Advisor.com, the singles' resource guide to the best online dating web sites. The comprehensive guide includes reviews on the top three Gay dating service websites and links to the best sites offering online Lesbian dating services.

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Online Dating Advice – Avoiding Internet Dating Pitfalls

Online dating advice is easy to give, but I’ve been amazed by how quickly most people forget the basic rules. I’ve been giving free online dating advice because I have two objectives – to make sure you are successful with your online dating, and to make sure you stay safe.

Below I’ve summarized my online dating advice in a handy list. Keep it close to your computer! If you follow these tips, you’ll discover that your Internet dating experience will be more fruitful and you’ll be safer.

Write a Profile that’s the Right Length

Too short (just a few sentences) and most people will think you didn’t put serious thought into it; too long, and they may not read to the end. Three paragraphs is a good length if you create an interesting snapshot of who you are. Mention some of your interests and past times. Observations such as "I’d love to travel to Europe sometime, but for now Italian restaurants give me a taste of what’s to come," show that you’re interesting and have a sense of humor.

Don’t Reveal Personal Details

Never give away personal data like your last name, where you live or even where you work in your profile. It’s too easy for someone to find you. While most people online are well-adjusted individuals, you can never be too careful. Until you know someone very well, don’t tell them more than they need to know. This is probably the most important online dating advice and safety tip of all – meet someone for the first time in a public place. There’s no leeway on this one – it provides you an "out" if you need it.

Posting Your Photo

And consider this online dating advice: photos are the downfall of many people. One of the most common mistakes is posting a bad photo. You don’t have to have a formal portrait done, but you should make sure the photo is a clear, close-up shot without others in the picture. Don’t post a photo you obviously took of yourself with your computer cam late at night. Also don’t post photos where your ex was obviously cut out of the picture.

Please, Please don’t Grovel

I’ve read hundreds of profiles that have phrases like, "no games – I’ve had enough of them," or "broken heart needs healed." This kind of stuff smacks of emotional baggage – something no one wants to start a relationship having to cope with.

Keep Your Initial Emails Friendly and Upbeat

No complaints about past relationships or how lonely you are. Instead, make sure the other person sees you as someone who is complete and happy already. If they understand that you want to add someone special to an already fulfilling life, they will be drawn to you as someone who can enhance their own life.

Be Honest about Yourself

Don’t forget this important online dating advice. Fudging the facts on income, what you do for a living or what you like to do, you’ll only dig yourself into a hole. At some point the truth will come out, and you’ll have way too much explaining to do.

Be Truthful about What You’re Looking For

If you want a serious relationship, be honest so that you don’t get involved with someone who is only looking for something casual. You’ll get hurt and have wasted your own time and theirs. The same goes for the opposite scenario – don’t lead someone on if you know they’re looking for true love but you just want someone to hang out with for a few months.

Pick Up on the Other Person’s Cues

As you move on to exchanging your actual email addresses or phone numbers, be sure to pick up on the other person’s cues. If he or she emails or calls and you have a great chat – wonderful! Agree at the end of the conversation when you’d like to talk again and stick with it. Don’t blow them off – a sure sign you aren’t reliable. On the other hand, don’t call earlier or email too often – clinging like that is a definite turn-off during what should be a cautious phase.

Do Your Homework

There are hundreds of dating websites available, and many sites cater to specific groups. If you want a Christian-based relationship, consider a Christian online dating site. If you are looking for something that’s purely physical, there are sites that focus on that as well. Don’t just randomly pick a site. You may discover that it has lots of members, but not many who have anything in common with you.

Finally, don’t give up. The best online dating advice I can give is to be patient and try a few different online dating services. It may take some time to find the right person, but along the way you can make some great friends and have some fun.

About the Author:

Kevin Urban is the editor at Dating-Site-Advisor.com, the single man's guide to the best online dating sites. Whether you are searching for a black dating web site or you are interested in Latin dating services, you'll find reviews of the best web sites here.

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Online Dating For Good Guys

Thanks to the Internet! Internet dating is here. Many accept it as the most popular and exciting platform to find out about mates, online couples, adult swingers, lesbian, sex partners, relationships and match making online. However, for some it has been a bitter pill. Particularly those good guys who have encountered people with loose nuts and bolts.

It could happen to you and shake others too, if you are not learned about dating etiquette or do not care to follow. Those who have a no follow attribute online should be shunned by all means. Experience will tell you who these people are and why these people are on the internet.

When you are responding to adult personals on an online dating site, keep this in mind. The profile you are responding to may not come out to be as interesting on further communication, as may often happen. Your negative response on such case should be polite.

Some people may show an interest in you or some aspects of your way of life which you have concerned on your profile. Such people may not be interested in dating you, as have often happened to me. In such instance, you should respond to them in a friendly manner if time permits, and be perfect friends online. After all online adult dating is not always for a relationship offline; you can make a friends and share experiences.

You are care to responding to those people who show interest in you in time and decently. An encouraging response is what the practice should be in online dating. You are complete ignorance of those person’s invitation should be strictly in case badly behaves. Do not make friends like one of those high society snobs. Decency in communication is a must.

I hope people learn to show decency on the internet. For a quite, most of online visitors I have encountered have shown appreciable amount of ignore, bad behavior, and they are not familiar to internet dating etiquette. This discourages persons who are seriously interested in finding friends and online relationship. Those lonely souls will go through, and brats will take the cake or rather spoil the broth.

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PG Dating and Social Networking Release

Nowadays Dating Industry world is developing so fast that it’s sometimes difficult to keep up with all the new options and opportunities that arise every day. Though software developers still try to be the right time in the right place, to release new software updates and satisfy the growing demands of their clients.

This week Pilot Group LTD announced about the next release of their famous dating software PG Dating Pro and its new product for social networking industry - PG Social Networking Software.

Both the products are fully functional and operational. In the new versions they include such features as Couple linked profile option, totally new Forum Module, updated Invite Friends Module, new formats for site Watermark, Tags option for easier search and matching the profiles, Flash Chat banner section, powerful Events Module and easy-to-use Administration panel with multiple statistics sections and sorting options.

Combined with attractive design and user-friendly interface these two products may be a good start for your Dating and Social Networking Business. It’s interesting to mention that Pilot Group tries to develop both the software products in parallel to keep them professional and updated all the time. If you compare Features lists of PG Dating Pro Script and PG Social Networking Software you’ll notice that they are almost equal. The difference is that PG Social Networking is totally oriented to Social Networking industry in its texts, main page design, components. This software includes (besides Social Networking Core), 8 pre-installed additional modules that are necessary to make a social networking site: Gift Store, Clubs, Blog, Poll, Forum, Events, Personal Organizer and Invite Friends Modules.

PG Dating Pro still has its add-ons that can be added any time you need them. As usual clients get life time Technical Support and Free Installation, Technical Manuals, Installation instructions, Dating Business Management Tips and Updates. Same service is for PG Social Networking.

Moreover, everyone knows that every startup is always difficult to move forward. Now Dating and Social Networking industry is tough and it’s becoming more and more difficult to win users at a Site. That’s why Pilot Group offers to all its clients a Startup Promotional Bonus for their Dating and Social Networking Sites. Right now there are 2 options in it: Banner Rotation Bonus and Initial Submit Bonus. All Bonus are available upon your request absolutely free.

If you really want to make your own Dating and Social Networking site and considering to get a professional software and excellent support check new updates of PG Dating Script and PG Social Networking Script. Probably you’ll find all that you need to start and develop a successful online business!

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Friday, October 26, 2007

Entering the World of Adult Online Dating and Personals

The world of adult dating and personals has come a long way since the personals section of the local and regional newspapers. While still utilized, adult online dating and personals services have evolved many ways in the past few years and has become a staple of prime time television commercials.

New Directions in Adult Online Dating and Personals

The number of dating sites are too numerous to add to this article, and while it is impossible to tell which service will provide the user with the best match, it is important to know what direction that adult online dating and personals is taking.

Mentioned previously is the matchmaking and personality profiling and many sites allow the users to communicate within the confines of the site, which facilitates a safer environment for those who are unwilling to give out telephone, email or other identifying information.

The only challenge for the user is to find the service that is most compatible to his or her personality and desires. With some agencies specializing in Christian, homosexual, ethnic dating or any version between, the benefits to the consumer are great. Having the ability to go to an adult online dating service and personals area allows the user anonymity, and the ability to access the site from the comfort zone of home allows for a more natural response to many of the questions that may come up on a site.

Benefits of Adult Online Dating and Personals

The ability to search within your own area is helpful to those seeking someone that is not across the country or the globe. While it is certainly possible to find someone in more distant areas, many would not be willing to go across the country to find the ideal date.

Adult online dating services that narrow the search to local areas allow the user to forego the awkwardness of the physical dating scene. The old method of going to an agency or writing a seeking advertisement in the paper discouraged many that wanted to seek but were unwilling to expose themselves.

No matter what your choice in finding dates or mates, the world of adult online dating services and personals provides a service and will continue to evolve as a matchmaking device as the technology advances.


Adult online dating services and personals allow that user to be remain in the comfort zone and choose a possible companion with the distinctive personality traits that can be accessed through many site’s servers.

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Fun Dating Ideas to Spice Up Your Marriage

One of the best benefits of marriage is that you have a permanent dating partner. Don't let the fun end after the honeymoon. Here are some ideas for fun dates.

1. Spend an afternoon at the opera. These aren't as expensive as you might think. Check out a local college for possible discounts on campus performances. If you go, be sure to check out the plot of the story beforehand.

2.Sample a variety of cafe's. Instead of just staying at one restaurant, have dinner at one place and dessert at another. Try to find places within walking distance, this way you can enjoy the scenery.

3. Head to the zoo. The zoo can be quite a fascinating place. Check out everything from penguins to gorillas. If you're more of an aquatic fan, check out your nearest aquarium.

4. Up for peanuts! A summer ball game is always fun, whether it's major league or little league.

5. Hit the outdoors. Pack a lunch and head to the nearest trails or even learn to kayak.

6. Check out the museums.Whatever your interests, you're sure to find a museum that matches your tastes. The next time you're out on a dinner date. Stop in at a museum before-hand.

7. Picnics are always a pleasure. Pack a lunch and a blanket and head to your nearest park.

Are you more of an adventurous type? Check out some of these ideas.

* Design a card board box car and order your favorite meals at a fast food restaurant.

* Get together with friends and make your own movie. You could also film a scavenger hunt. These are a blast to film and to watch.

Are you a married couple looking for some cheap dating ideas? You could:

- Sketch your dream-house floor plan and talk about the possibilities of each room.

- Attend an art festival.

- Walk in the rain.

- Build a fire, turn out the lights and talk for hours.

- Go swimming in the middle of the night.

- Build a snowman together.

- Take a bike ride.

- Have a candlelight picnic in the backyard.

- Share a milkshake with two straws.

- Go to a coffee shop.

- Raid the kids room and fly a kite.

Hope these ideas help to put a little quirky fun into your marriage.

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Dating Small Talk: 3 Tips to Avoiding Big Problems

It can be a terrible ordeal for many of us. It seems to particularly strike when you are out on a date. The symptoms include: sweaty palms, forced laughter, awkward pauses, extended periods of uncomfortable silence and occasional desperate glances toward the nearest exit. It respects no person or title and has an incredible track record of ending relationships that otherwise would have blossomed. I am sure medical people have a term for it (they always do) but for the rest of us it is pretty basic. We are in trouble when it comes to making small talk.

Some people can be the life of the party with chit chat skills that rival Oprah. They seem to know what to say, when to say it and how. Is it gift? In a lot of ways the answer is yes but the ability to connect with people is not only for the chosen few.

You may not ever get your own daytime talk show but with a little practice and patience you can overcome any small talk obstacles in your dating relationship.

1. Develop Self Confidence

Without this one, it is extremely difficult to break thru the small talk barrier. It is not just a matter of speaking without being too self conscious; it also comes down to conveying the right body language. If your date sees that no matter how much you talk, you still look uncomfortable then the chances are pretty strong they will also feel uncomfortable.

Develop self confidence by engaging strangers in small talk. Whether you are in the grocery store checkout line or a crowded elevator, turn to the person next to you and start chatting. What do you talk about? Anything within reason and good taste; remember they are strangers. Talk about the weather, how slow the checkout line is moving, or ask people, "Is it Friday yet"? That one can be a major icebreaker to anyone who holds down a nine to five job.

2. Tone Down Your Self Consciousness

You can think about what you will say to your date and have it all worked out. Worked out that is until the self conscious police take over. How should I say it, what will it sound like, what will my date say,should I even say it? This is only the tip of the iceberg after the self conscious police get thru with you.

Part of having confidence and enjoying yourself on a date is the ability to think of someone other than yourself. If you want to do a personal evaluation save it until the date is over. And even then do not trash yourself. No one is perfect so critique gently and make the adjustments accordingly.

3. Stay Informed

This is an incredible dating tool. Keeping on top of news and current events is perfect for overcoming any small talk obstacles. Staying informed allows you to speak intelligently on a broad range of topics. Keep in mind however you are not doing this to show off so don't study current events like it is a college exam. The whole point is to engage your date so that both of you can feel more comfortable. Mentioning a news story you read may lead to an extended conversation where you can really get to know each other.

Again do not go overboard. Be observant to the words and body language of the other person. If the conversation is starting to drag, get a little too one sided or uncomfortably passionate then end it quickly. Try to have a few lines handy to segue into another subject or exit the current one politely.

There is no getting around dating small talk but it is also nothing to fear. Just practice your confidence, leave your self consciousness at the door and stay informed about news and currents events. Good small talk has the capability of putting your date at ease so they feel comfortable enough to share things about their life with you and vice versa.

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