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Two crucial factors in attracting women that most dating methods don't tell you about!

Most dating methods seem to suggest that the first thing you must do upon seeing a woman you would like to meet is simply to go up to her and "start a chat" or "break the ice" with her.. We use the term to deliver an "opener" . However this is a very weak notion as women decide whether or not they even want you to "open" them leave alone attract them and seduce them well before you open them. They make this determination on your non verbal mannerisms and decipher whether or not they are indicative of an alpha male or a beta male. If you exhibit beta mannerisms then not even the coolest line will work as she doesn't want to be "opened by and attracted to" a beta male. Conversely, if you exhibit alpha mannerisms then any line will work as a woman will know that she is being opened by a "high survival value exhibiting" alpha male and so any opener will work and so will the probability that she will be open to being attracted to you and even seduced by you.

So what are the non verbal mannerisms of an alpha male?

1)Have a great smile when you speak -A smile conveys confidence and coolness.
2) Dominant and powerful body language-This means have a cool, relaxed stance, take up space when you walk, speak with a loud dominant voice, make eye contact with everyone, have a sly, playful smile when you interact with others as this shows that you are non-reactive to people

3) Social Proof from other women-Engage women in conversation and and let your target set see that you are attractive to other women

4) Dominate other men-Be the most unreactive, coolest, best dressed, most confident male in any given social venue.

5) Have a unique style-Remember women do judge you on your style as part of your pre-opener non verbal social value so make sure it stands out and in fact screams out at them.

The other thing that most dating methods don't tell you is that just because you attract a woman, that does not mean she is "sexually attracted to you". See most men are good at generating some superficial IOI's from a woman but to truly turn that spark or initial interest or superficial attraction into "raw, sexual attraction" you need to hook a woman to chasing you. Think about it, how else would a woman justify that her feelings towards you are those of sexual attraction unless she knew that she would chase you or would feel a loss if you withdrew your presence from her. One of the best ways to get a woman to pursue you is to falsely disqualify yourself from her and subtly distract or divert your attention away from her .

Some examples of false disqualification are:

"You better go, I bet your friends are waiting for you"
"I'm too extroverted for you"

See in essence, I am pushing her away and that is so against the grain of what she is used to. This will throw her off balance and cause her to question her attractiveness and sexiness. She will then chase me to redeem her status as God's specimen of heavenly perfection. Consequently this chasing dynamic that I have set up will make her feel sexual tension and raw sexual attraction for me.

Some examples of diverting my attention of her would be:

1) Look at other women subtly as she is talking to me
2) Act like I am getting bored.

This will also create a chase dynamic with a woman as it will put a sense of uncertainty
inside the woman's mind that she is God's gift to the earth as you are displaying an indifferent care-free attitude towards her. This will make her logically infer that you are bored of her or don't find her attractive. Once again as a result, she wil start to chase you.

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posted by pagmanny @ 12:10 AM